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Oh please. I promise - they have not. They just think they are superior to the old people who have dared not to die yet. Their stuff is still junk, and I promise that one day someone who doesn't want to deal with it will have to deal with it.[/quote]

Speak for yourself. I'm decluttering right now, I'm doing it regularly, perhaps once a year. Right now I'm taking on a bigger task as the kids are teens and I have the energy and desire to get rid of things. The pile of stuff we're talking about is not something that "old people" suddenly end up with unnoticed. It's literally stuff that has been accumulating over the past 40-50 years. I personally started telling my parents to get rid of unused things in my 20s, when they were younger than I am now. They didn't. [b]As I said before, it's a control issue. [/b]Yes, indeed, once you're 80+, it's unlikely you'll have the energy to deal with 40-50 years of possessions, which is why it's best to not even to start on this path (I was a minimalist until starting a family), or at least keep an eye on the pile regularly (outgrown kids' stuff takes up 90% of my "pile" right now). We'll all die. This is something one has to come to terms with. [/quote]

YOU are the one who has a “control issue”. You think you are entitled to dictate to your parents how they should live their lives and what possessions they should own. Get over it.[/quote]

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