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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes

I worked my but off to make it so my spouse would not have to work.  I don't wish working upon anyone, why would I want my house to have to work?

Having one spouse not working makes everything easier.  Life logistics, events, travel.

I feel that our relationship has also benefited tremendously. Lunch/day dates are great.  Even just going to the grocery store in the middle of the day when we feel like instead of cramming it into a busy weekend or late night removes stress and urgency.

Anything that I can do or we can do together to make life (especially DW's) as stress free as possible, I am all in.

Relationship run into issues when one partner thinks because they work they are relieved of all other responsibilities.   My wife is better with the hands on stuff.  I am better at the big picture stuff.  I plan travel, make and go to Dr. appointments, do school pick up and drop off,  handle a good chunk of other logistics and life needs.[/quote]

Well said.  The same in my house, married for 19 years, 4 children, we're very happy.

Interdependence is a crucial thing.  Independence and dependence are both enemies of happy marriages.

I rely on my wife and think she is priceless and irreplaceable.  [b]She relies on me [/b]and tells me the same.

You all hedging your bets in case of divorce sound tiresome and miserable.  Burn your ships, be all in.[/quote]
Well, yeah, she would be homeless and have $0 without her work horse. [/quote]

Only if the horse was an ahole.  Not all me are.[/quote]

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