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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You asked for a break and broke up with him. He said specially he would date others if you break up. Learn to communicate like an adult and this wouldn’t happen. To him and most people on this thread you broke up, so he is free to date whomever he wants.

Don’t follow him on social if you don’t want to see how he is living his life after the breakup. He is not rubbing it in, people post everything. You are reading too much into it. He posts his life the girls lost theirs with him. You don’t want to look into that window simply “unfollow”. [/quote]

A break is not a breakup[/quote]

Yes it is.[/quote]

NP. Certainly not. The number of people who apparently don’t understand this is dumbfounding to me. [/quote]

A break means just that -- a stopping.  If the other party wanted they could wait to see where you get to.  But there is no obligation to do so.  Here, the guy was also at the end point so used the break just to move on (in a revenge sort of way) or he was so hurt by what was said now hates OP.  So either he was just not that into you or your discussion on the break caused him not to be into you.  A majority of dating guys have a plan B.  Women that have made it known they are interested.  Most of those guys will do nothing about that if in a relationship.  But if you break they will move on it.  Why?  Because break is either the end or the start of the end or a difficult period that the guy may want no part of.

If the guy had decided you are the one -- he might wait.  If he has not reached that conclusion then your break is a breakup.[/quote]

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