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[quote=Anonymous]Not OP- But it sounds like the 30K would mean be hears that she is stressed, understands that she wants to downshift, and is willing to step up to take off some of the emotional and financial load. Other options that would also help would be downsizing to the rental property they already own Or him finding a financial planner who shows how they can maximize their current situation so they can reach shared goals without OP having to overwork to make 75% of the household income. Or marriage counseling so they can feel like partners. OP I think a therapist is a great idea. Have you talked to a lawyer or financial planner on your own? Are you on mediation for anxiety? Does your OB know you are struggling? Do you have a doula or local support? [/quote]
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