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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anecdotal story: Several friends married for love, looks, friendship, wealth or potential, results were really mixed. Almost all marriages based on wealth failed or didn't inherit much. Some materialized their potential, others didn't, some stayed in love, others didn't. Looks didn't help with fights and eventually faded. Every single marriage based on friendship and attraction, survived and strengthened. Most relationships started in early 20's, friends built happy families and good careers together, now aging together and enjoying empty nesting. Lesson: Marry people you love and respect and can live within peace as money, looks and success doesn't have as much value for making life happier compared to a good bond and good character. Everything changes but kindness, conciseness, emotional intelligence remain. [/quote] +100 Great insight.[/quote] If it was that easier all women would have married ugly but nice men and will be happy. But looks and sexual attraction DO matter! I wouldnt be able to perform my spousal duties if I wasn't into him sexually and if he was just a good friend[/quote] I am the PP you quoted. My husband is smoking hot, at 58 looks the same as at 39 (he is a dermatologist), including muscular body and a full head of thick brown hair. Yet I am not into him at all anymore, because he lacks emotional intelligence. [/quote]
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