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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The news backs this reality up. There are too many absent fathers in children's lives and women are sinking into poverty and kids growing up with more and more problems. Just do a Google search on absent fathers. Its a hot topic. There is no immediate abuse that not having sex wouldn't solve and OPs child is very young. She should be strategic and use her husband to provide the best amount of money and help she can get out of him for her daughter's sake and her own. [/quote] Cheating on a spouse is a form of abuse. Why should she model a dysfunctional relationship for her child, and share her home with someone she hates? Why do you think women should have such low self esteem (and options) that they have to subject themselves and their children to this existence. HE broke up the family, not her.The damage is done...don't make her feel like it is her responsibility.[/quote] No one is blaming her, but the reality is that a child that young needs a lot of care and money during childhood and the dad isn't going to get better just because she divorces. Things don't magically change in her world for the better just because of divorce. The reality is this guy is probably already checked out of the marriage. They already don't get along. It's very likely he will not be a fantastic dad on his own, she will have less time with her child, and less money to use on her behalf for her and her child. I'm not giving the dad a pass. I'm holding him accountable and saying he likely used her in the relationship for his benefit and she can do the same in a different way back using him for his money and work,[/quote]
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