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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I suspect OP is a way oversharer and instead learning to limit the details she shares, she is blaming overs for making small talk. Get over yourself OP[/quote]

OP already said she doesn't share much about her life, not sure why you'd assume that.

I once had a colleague who asked my age. As soon as I said I was 30 she told me to start thinking about kids. Also had a manager tell me that I should have children even though I told her I wasn't interested. I have a uterine malformation which is severe and unlikely to be corrected with surgery. It's painful how nosy people can be.[/quote]

The OP bizarrely said she wants kids but cannot afford them at 36, which is what set this thread on fire. I have no doubt she is giving out these details casually, especially with how defensive she is about her financial logic, or she is a troll having a wonderful evening [/quote]

I didn't give any details either and still got nosy colleagues reminding me of my age. You're seriously underestimating how terrible some people can be. I see nothing wrong with OPs financial logic. She sounds she wants both children and comfort, but can't have both, which is actually very common. It's hard not to be defensive when you made a decision on a topic that's painful and have people basically telling you that your decision is wrong. The only thing I hope is that nobody with similar issues ever posts here.[/quote]

Dude I am a diabetic and infertile with multiple IVF rounds. I think OP detailed responses show why she is getting this advice[/quote]

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