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[quote=Anonymous]"It's all about priorities. I work out of necessity, but would LOVE to be home with my children. I place my family above all else. It bothers me that I'm not home when my children get home from school. I should be there for them. I could care less about "achieving something in the workplace". I am not irreplaceable; most people aren't. Besides, I'll be an empty nester before I'm 45. Barring a major catastrophic event, my time left to work outweighs the time I will have to parent my minor children. " It's not just about priorities, it's about different personalities and life experiences and time lines. I work purely from personal choice (my DH makes over $200,000 and we have no mortgage or other debt). When I was 45, my children were 11 and 9. I will have a kid in college until I'm 59. I'm sure not planning to work much beyond 62 or so, so if I don't continue to work while I have kids at home (until I'm 55), I don't have any meaningful time life to have a career rather than just a job. You work for the money not because you like what you do. Just so you know, just because I'm not home when the kids get out of school in no way means I place my work above my family.[/quote]
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