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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Cheaters only admit to what they think they can get away with. If he said that they met every other week for six months, double or triple that. He's probably still in contact with the AP, sexting or even possibly meeting up when they can. You simply will never know. He has successfully hid this from you for SO LONG.

Being married to an exceptional liar is not a flex. You need to divorce this guy. [/quote]

+1.  Not a flex - it’s creepy, predatory behavior.  Your DH may be “trickle truthing” you - telling you what he thinks you already know and he can get away with, hoping you will either be satisfied or so horrified that you will not ask further Qs.  By now he’s had a chance to cover tracks, but you should still examine all records - cell phone especially and reverse search #s, check all bank and credit card records, computer history (particularly locations, log ins and search history), email accounts (including draft, trash and spam folders).  His cell phone should be open to at all times to you to look at anything you want for as long as you want.

People will say that a relationship/life where you have to play detective like the above isn’t worth it, but it also isn’t worth it to blindly trust someone who has proven your trust was misplaced. Getting the real 411 is the lesser of two evils.

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