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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I never call troll on DCUM - but this post makes no sense. If OP has had sex 5-6 times in the 2 weeks since she was cleared for intercourse at her 6 week postpartum checkup, or if her husband was initiating sex prior to the 4-6 week checkup, that is very out of character for a husband who is used to having sex 3-4 times per month or roughly once a week. [/quote]

A lot of people (unadvisedly) don’t follow the advice to wait til 6 weeks pp to have sex. I’m guessing OP didn’t (likely because she already felt pressured for sex by her husband before he raped her). OP, it sounds like your husband’s behavior is escalating. If you’ve had sex already 5-6 times since giving birth 2 months ago…that’s already showing your husband doesn’t really respect you sexually and doesn’t care about your healing process. My husband was even more cautious than I was about making sure it was ok to have sex postpartum. It’s such a difficult time w hormone changes, breastfeeding, sleep deprivation…and many women are still bleeding and sore for 6 weeks after birth. It’s not a good time to have sex. Sounds like your husband didn’t care about that already and then he escalated to full on raping you a few nights ago, using alcohol abuse as a cover/excuse.[/quote]

Something to consider, OP, esp as the frequency lately already seems higher than normal for you as a couple, even if you did not follow the wait 6 weeks rule. It's all quite troubling. [/quote]

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