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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Gaining weight is a sometimes stress symptom
It happens to women too.

My ex spouse gained and then lost 50 lbs. Really, he looks great now. He took up running and yoga.
He has a girlfriend. I am still bewildered but it happens. I ‘ve seen it.  I had drive and fitness. But I was insufferable at times. 
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S*x and intimacy became an issue when we lost the emotional bond.[/b] Guys know when you don’t respect them anyone. They sense it. It kills off the desire for sure. It’s all hard work (and I would say mostly in your head/attitude).[/quote]
+1 the libido for women is in the brain, not between her legs.[/quote]

Respectfully, bullshit. Plenty of women are jumping into bed with guys because they're horny. Not because of some kind of emotional bond. In fact, many women have *less* sex with guys once the emotional bond of a long-term relationship is established than they had when that bond was barely formed. I can't point to double-blind studies, so maybe my anecdata is flawed; but it seems to me that hormones and new relationship energy have a lot more to do with sexual desire than deep emotional bonds. [/quote]

Even in a new relationship, most women don't want to sleep with somebody who doesn't respect them. So imagine what it's like when there is not new relationship energy![/quote]

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