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While you are figuring out the chemical formula your job is to drain the cortisol out of your world, once the stress is gone and she begins to associate you with joy, achievement, closeness and all the other good feelings her attitude towards you will begin to change and libido will follow shortly behind. You must never ask for it, never pester her again, don’t ever get mopey around her[.]
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You might be right for a lot of cases. But, it's incredibly tough to trust that this will actually pay dividends. Because, in the moment, working toward this feels like you're her dancing monkey that she will continue to take for granted. [/quote]

NP. If you are doing it *just* to get sex and not to build a good relationship and make her happy, of course you'll feel like a dancing monkey. Because that's how you're acting.

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Totally, just get her cortisol levels down with a Pavlovian response you develop over 10 years and see if it pays off sexually. It’s so easy. What’s wrong with you?[/quote]

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