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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Gaining weight is a sometimes stress symptom
It happens to women too.

My ex spouse gained and then lost 50 lbs. Really, he looks great now. He took up running and yoga.
He has a girlfriend. I am still bewildered but it happens. I ‘ve seen it.  I had drive and fitness. But I was insufferable at times. 
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S*x and intimacy became an issue when we lost the emotional bond.[/b] Guys know when you don’t respect them anyone. They sense it. It kills off the desire for sure. It’s all hard work (and I would say mostly in your head/attitude).[/quote]
+1 the libido for women is in the brain, not between her legs.[/quote]

Respectfully, bullshit. Plenty of women are jumping into bed with guys because they're horny. Not because of some kind of emotional bond. In fact, many women have *less* sex with guys once the emotional bond of a long-term relationship is established than they had when that bond was barely formed. I can't point to double-blind studies, so maybe my anecdata is flawed; but it seems to me that hormones and new relationship energy have a lot more to do with sexual desire than deep emotional bonds. [/quote]
ah, but their ONS are just that.   However, most women don't want to have s3x with men whom they don't like or respect.  ONS is different. It's purely about s3x and attraction.   You are not going to see your s/o whom you have been with for decades as a ons.[/quote]

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