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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love my husband but he is not like...a man. He does not have a big career or even works outside of the home! He runs a small business and hardly leaves the house. He cooks dinner most nights and does not show any interest in physical fitness or sports. He does not have male friends and he is a recluse.

We have a 3 year old that I know will seek out his father in terms of how to be a man, when the time comes. Is my situation as dire as being a single mom in terms of having role models for our son?[/quote]

Sign your kid up for a range of activities m, be positive about them all, go to the best schools he can go to. All of that will provide tons of role models and develop his skills and interests. 
Hopefully your husband will tag along. He may even surprise you and have some ideas of his own for said child to try. Or make some dad friends!

Definitely make play dates for your child and you or dad to attend. Go to every bday party. Throw your kid an entire class party.  Do fun stuff on the holidays and make your own traditions.

Ideally you’d plan and do all these things with your husband, but if he’s too confused or introverted, you will have to do it yourself. [/quote]

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