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Reply to "I have a tumor, DH doesn't care. WWYD?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Has your husband disagreed with you and encouraged you to get the tumor removed earlier? If he is pushing for that and you are declining, there may be a sense of conflict underlying all these discussions. It’s really hard to know where he stands because you are being a bit vague, OP. Other ideas: 1. he is revisiting his fear from your previous cancer scare and unable to handle his anxiety when you bring this up. 2. He is completely uncaring (I doubt this is the case given that you have been married a long time and know this man). 3. He doesn’t believe this is life threatening and yet you do (you really need a sit down with your care team if that’s the case, so he can hear it directly from them). 4. He is simply an emotionally unavailable person when it comes to health issues. Agree with the recommendations to get your own personal therapist to discuss this with and get a marriage counselor.[/quote]
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