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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A women I am friendly with tried to include me in her group. She has invited me to do things with them on several occasions. Unfortunately the “leader” of the group made it clear that she doesn’t want me around. Each time we meet she will act like she can’t remember anything about me. She repeatedly asks me how old my kid is (my kid and her kid are in the same grade at the same school). She will invite the others to lunch in front of me etc…. Her behavior makes things very awkward for all of us. The other women think she’s absolutely amazing. One women told me that they are “the best family”. I’m so hurt and lonely. I feel like I’m back in 7th grade. I’m a 44yo female with two kids but no friends. How do I get past this. [/quote] Dead pan her back and say something like I know! Menopause/The Holidays/stress/whatever is making me forget stuff too. Randy is at Xavier with Beau. The other day I couldnt find my phone and I was on it! Had a good laugh about that. Then give a bedazzaling smile and turn to someone else and ask them about their new bag or what they are doing for Thanksgiving. She is TRYING to make you uncomfortable and freeze you out and make you look like you dont belong to other people. Ive been frozen out before and then I made friends with other people and stopped trying with the Queen Bee one. Dont act like I am not important enough to remember our kids dont go to the same school. I would normally just repeat myself but the fact that she invites others to lunch when you are right there tells me she is a bit45. [/quote]
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