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[quote=Anonymous]Sorry, OP, you're in a crappy situation. You had a normal, spontaneous response with your kids. I would try to disengage from him as much as you can, which sucks, because you'll be in a mode where you don't really have a partner - but you don't really have a partner anyway, with the way he is. I would extend the disengagement to therapy as well and see what happens when it's on him to bring up issues. It doesn't serve you to be open and vulnerable in therapy when he's manipulative and not focused on improving the relationship. Since he is the way he is, you have to hold in your reactions to the things the kids say. Whatever happens when you're not there, go with it. You can't be normal with someone like him. You said that he has a special show that he watches with the kids. How would he react if you watched it with the kids when he was out of the house? Do you think he specifically watched "your" show with them to get a rise out of you? [/quote]
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