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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like there’s some shame going on. Is there anything on his youth/childhood that might explain this?[/quote]

Op here. Honestly I really don’t think so. He has done all these things before. I think he is really just stuck in his ways at this point. And now that others mentioned it, maybe he is afraid of not being able to perform in other positions. I really don’t know.[/quote]

Dear OP, you must actually have the conversation with your DH, not with us. What is your plan to do so?[/quote]

I have brought up many times that it upsets me. But clearly I have to be more direct in my questioning. I don’t even know how to ask something like that without hurting his feelings in some way though. But I guess that’s what needs to happen.[/quote]

Why not just glance out say it?  I want to do x position?[/quote]

Oh I absolutely have directly said that. Multiple times. On multiple occasions. He either just ignores my request completely or says no. [/quote]

So why don't you just ignore his no and hop on where and when you want?[/quote]

Yeah, spousal SA is always a good plan. “Ignore the no,” threaten to leave, coerce consent…

This thread is wild.[/quote]

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