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[quote=Anonymous]Sometimes other people's tragedies stir up fears within ourselves . . . think of all the horrible comments when someone's child dies in a hot car. We fear that the unpleasant thing we're seeing could happen to us. And so rather than leaning into empathy, we decide to lecture the person on what they did wrong, sure that we would never be in the same situation (but really . . . not sure, not confident, afraid). Also, it's very common to make judgments based on how we feel and then work backwards to some stab at logic. This can lead to confirmation bias and appeals to emotion.[/quote]
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