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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sons will be told to marry a girl with her own income.

Just like my parents told me to always be able to support myself (keep a foot in the workplace) because you never know what will happen in life.

Get an ironclad pre-nup.[/quote]

I was told the same and have yet to find a man that didn’t feel like I was competing with him in some fashion. Or even worse - men who can’t pull their own weight. Even if I wanted to be the stay at home type- I’ve been conditioned not to be and am essentially “priced out” of the market.  I never found my equal.. either they wanted to control or be babies. [/quote]

Yep. Heaven forbid a woman’s career go better than the man’s, especially if they come in as “equal”. Things do no stay the same and always move in an upwards trajectory. The ones posting here thinking they can control all this stuff are hilarious. You don’t want to be married. You don’t want kids. You can’t control those outcomes so stay single. You’ll be here posting about pathetic and lonely you are, but you’ll have your assets.[/quote]

Agree 100%. I’m tickled by all these presumably men who forget they are human and just as susceptible to losing their jobs, have health issues from all the grinding they have done and yet go into a marriage with all these conditions like they are near perfect- god like human beings. The op is lucky to have someone view HIM as marriage material. With that trash mindset- I pray he isn’t ever on his deathbed hoping money and his prenups change his dirty diaper or stand by him in such dire straits. Choose love OP- unconditionally- because you are human and can get replaced any day of the week. Best to have someone in your corner because life will deal you a shithand in due time. [/quote]

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