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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would compare worst-case scenarios. How do you feel about worst-case not being with her versus worst-case being together (within reason)? Do you want to be with someone who makes a tenth of what you make and might become a SAHM? Some working partners love and honor the SAHM role, while others feel trapped and resentful.

Also, What makes you think you’d be ruined financially if you got divorced? I’m not disagreeing with this idea, but want more explanation. Are you worried about alimony payments stretching forever, for example. You can create a prenup with her that protects you both in that scenario, while you’re still happy and wanting the best for each other. After all, neither of you wants to be left clawing at each other over resources if you split up and hate each other.[/quote]

Why would I want the best for her if she breaks the marriage vow?
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Because she will be the mother of your children???  Sheesh.  My ex cheated but I still agreed to a fair settlement.  Besides, the courts don't want to hear your drama, just split everything down the middle.

Besides, it's not always cut and dry as to who is at fault in a divorce.

And people change.  You may find it hard to believe today but it could just as easily be YOU who cheats.[/quote]

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