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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hate this phrase but I think it fits: seems like this is a prelude to "conscious uncoupling." I'd say let him look for a cabin to buy as a second home and spend more and more time there. You join him for the remote month in the summer and a couple of weekends a month. You don't give up your home, your job, or the kids' lifestyle. Legitimately look for a remote job that isn't a big paycut, investigate the schools and medical care in the rural area. Make an effort to make friends there. And then just sort of see what happens. You might find a great job and find you want to move with your husband. Or you might find that you both prefer being apart and you come to an amicable agreement and split up the properties and the kids have a great place to visit during the summer.[/quote] This is what I'd suggest too. Get the second home and encourage him to spend time there. The time apart may bring you closer together or further apart.[/quote]
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