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[quote=Anonymous]I think all this dialogue with the husband on this thread just goes back to a point that several posters have made. There is a range of outcomes here. Some people divorce, some come to a place of acceptance, some manage to get their spouse to seek third party help and things improve, some live with simmering rage internally and live unhappily. OP just has to decide what works for her. And given all the different strategies she has already employed, it doesn’t sound like this guy will change one bit. I am pretty sure I would divorce in this scenario. But I have an ADHD husband that is not a jerk, is very engaged and manages to do lots with the kids and around the house. I am just the great orchestrator of it all. But we know this and appreciate each other for our strengths. I joke with him that I am his “magical fairy that makes his life easy.” He reminds me that I am super messy and he cleans up behind me. We laugh a lot. But this is not OP’s situation.[/quote]
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