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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]These threads just make me so so grateful. I leave cups on the counter in the morning and DH leaves snack bowls on the coffee table at night. And neither of us cares because…it doesn’t matter.[/quote]

I thought about this as we were enjoying watching TV together tonight and neither of us lifting a finger to go wash the dishes (and we really do have to wash; for reasons I won't get into, we don't have a dishwasher). Nice evening. Did a few dishes, late -- together. Just no big deal.[/quote]

Another +1. I don’t even think 2 breakfast dishes on the counter would even make my radar. I’d just rinse them off and pop them in the dishwasher and carry on with my day.

We keep a pretty tidy household, but with 3 kids, 2 parents with full time jobs, and lots of extracurriculars/activities we are often rushing out the door. As grown adults, we simply clean up messes based on who currently has the time to do it. Especially when it involves the kids, in which case there is no “his” mess or “my” mess. [/quote]

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