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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Someone who can’t read a two-word phrase, process it, and act on it is indeed stupid and/or using weaponized incompetence as a relationship tool. [/quote]

This exactly. [b]It’s not about the pasta. [/b]It’s about the fact that she can’t pass 1 simple task to him and he complete it effectively. In this relationship, she is clearly shouldering 95% of the mental load and it’s not that she’s angry about the type of pasta but more irritated that he can’t complete one task, meanwhile she’s keeping everything else afloat.

Additionally, it’s not a situation of her setting him up to fail or anything. She clearly wrote what she needed.  Then when asked about it, he effectively shuts down the conversation by saying “you’re making me feel stupid!” Or “how was I supposed to know?”. Yeah sure she could let it go about the pasta, or the dog medicine or this or that… but at what point is she going to feel like she doesn’t need him? He’s not contributing to the teamwork of running a household. He’s creating more problems. [/quote]

Anyone else watch Vanderpump Rules? Because now that's all I can think of.[/quote]

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