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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP did you read my update about the wine. She said I was being "shady".

I said I would get a glass of the wine since she kept raving that I need to try it. She said, "oh you're in for a treat". So I suggested getting one for her, "Well since you've turned me onto a new wine, you should get one too! My treat!". She said, "oh you don't have to tell me twice, I love that wine!".

Then when the waiter came and I was looking at it to read him the name, I figured that a bottle was cheaper (especially if I liked it as much as she said I would) if I was getting more than one glass. Then I just said to the waiter that we will do a bottle.

She raved about the wine, but I'm not allowed to buy it because that would be "being a show off"? I'm not understanding, but I do sometimes read situations wrong so that's why I'm open to learning.[/quote]

It’s not just the one event. It’s your whole dynamic of you one-upping and doing things that can never be reciprocated. She also talked about how you always have people around and don’t fill her in on your life. She’s saying she finds your friendship shallow and she’s not that into it. You need to accept that. You don’t need her to like you. [/quote]

This is why I'm not understanding her comments. We talk DAILY. We go out or do an evening in (dinner/game night/ movie night) at least every 2 weeks. I had to leave town urgently. Between me finding out and leaving was less than 18 hrs. I had time to tie up loose ends with my small business, do laundry, organize dog walkers for the days my husband is gone all day, get an oil change and LEAVE. I had an emergency to tend to. I didn't just decide to go on a vacation spur of the moment. [/quote]

OP if you’re that close you ought to be able to have an in person conversation about this.

Also how many other friends do you have?[/quote]

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