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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We only saw individual therapists who every 3rd time looped in the spouse.

[b]Otherwise there is no accountability [/b]and a total waste of time and big money.

This is especially needed when mental disorders and maladaptive coping mechanisms are on display by unhealthy person. [/quote]
What are you talking about? When an adult participates in *individual* therapy, they don't have to account to their spouse, neither does the therapist. We're not talking about a child, we are discussing an adult who can protect themselves and decide what they share with who.[/quote]

There’s no accountability as in the dysfunctional person can make up and omit whatever they want over and over again. [/quote]
That is between the therapist and the client. Skilled therapists look for non verbal cues as well as look at the client's appearance. You can tell a lot just by looking. Further, liars have difficulty sticking to a story and details get changed. Op isn't taking notes while he talks, but his therapist definitely is.
Another possibility is that dh entered therapy with the hope and intention of improving his life and how he feels. He might be the most accurate reporter his therapist has met. Perhaps that's why she put her reputation on the line to protect his privacy.[/quote]

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