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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP will be back in the fall whining how there are no good women to date online when it gets cold and his kids stop using the pool.

The kids will soon be launched and have a life of their own. They won’t be back much. Supposedly he was building a life with his GF but wants to completely and utterly disregard everything she feels. She was feeling out how the situation would be if she moved and and OP failed. She will be much better off with a grow up after she dumps his ass. [/quote]

Win win. He's not ready to cohabitate yet, and she wants someone who's ready.

Once the kids are launched, maybe he'll find the right person. But you're saying this like he must act now, ask her to move in, and change his attitude for THIS girlfriend, with whom he is not compatible. Why? Why is it now or never? [/quote]

Once the kids are launched he will find some other reason not to commit because he doesn’t want to commit. He needs to find someone who doesn’t want to cohabitate or have a serious relationship. He’s going to have to keep fending off all of the desirable women who are competing for his attentions. [/quote]

LoL

Those desirable women aren’t going to stick around past the first date question of “what happened to your last relationship?”

“Oh after three years we broke up because I wasn’t willing to teach my college aged kids basic manners.”

“…”[/quote]

Nah. "We broke up because she didn't like my college age kids coming home to hang out,  and I wasn't ready to give them the boot. I wanted my kids to always have a home to come back to during college but my gf wanted me to treat them more like pesky relatives. So we parted ways."[/quote]

But then she meets the post-college kids who show up with no notice and get catered to by dad and the lie is out.[/quote]

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