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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]This is one of the reasons kidfree people shouldn't even bother to date people who have kids[/b]. OP's girlfriend is wasting her time and should find someone else to date, preferably someone who is younger and doesn't have kids.[/quote]

+1 Feel sorry for the GF in this case, she deserves someone who will put her first not after multiple adult kids.
Hope OP cuts her loose soon so she can go out and find someone without baggage.

Fwiw OP I think you're a fine parent but I'd go for someone with kids the next time around, she will understand that kids always come first.[/quote]

People with kids (especially ones they were watching in the hs play like three years ago) are not going to put a girlfriend first. It’s fine if that’s not okay with her they just aren’t compatible.

Also, having “talked about moving in” is g the same as moving in. In the same way gf could replace the bath mats if she was living there but it would be weird to do that when she’s not, it might be more okay to have some (few) visiting guidelines after she moved in but not before. [/quote]
But that's the context - they've talked about her moving in, and she's raising this as an obstacle.  Definitely a bad idea to move in and hope that they can deal with it later.  [/quote]

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