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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My job involves a lot of travel and a lot of cocktails and dinners, sometimes 1:1 and sometimes with a woman.

It has always been professional.  I have a lot of strong business relationships with women and men, and have never considered banging any of them.

[b]I am a very high performer with a high income.[/b]

The predominant attitude here that there’s something wrong with 1:1 mixed gender dinners or drinks is outrageous and toxic.  Grow up.[/quote]

No real question is how come no women ever made move on you? What does that say about you? Also, what does bold got to do with anything?[/quote]

DP but similar - lots of travel, plenty of evenings in restaurants and bars with colleagues/peers with great socialization and no woman has ever made a move on me afaik. So what does it say about me? Either that I’m sending out “closed” vibes or I’m clueless or I’m unappealing, or some combination of these. [/quote]

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NP and female who travels internationally 25% of the time and I have never either been approached or witnessed any funny business in 20 years of work travel. Of course everyone eats out and, no, I don’t only get dinner with female coworkers. Most people are just tried and want to FaceTime their partners and kids and go to bed. The single people tend to work out or work even more.

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We often travel in pairs and most of the time it’s a male coworker. No avoiding spending hours together alone. These days most of our time alone is at airports and then we are usually sitting next to each other on the flight. We also share a rental car so that leads to sharing music taste, podcasts, talking about our personal lives, etc.

I have a crush on one of the guys I travel with but would never act on it but it makes travel fun.[/quote]
Oh yeah, girl. Get back to us in 5-10 years. [/quote]

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