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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP really is a very bad example. Not everybody that finds the time to start or return to a high level of activity that they enjoy is “going to find friction at home.” That happens as a general issue BROADLY if there is something else problematic. And, sometimes it’s one of the two partners projecting - and it goes both ways.

Meanwhile, there are tons of people that have no issue with these arrangements. You just don’t hear about it. Funny how that works out.[/quote]

The issue people have friction at home is because the majority of married couples have kids and suddenly this wonderful hobby means the child care and labor division becomes severely imbalanced. Thus, friction. OP has no kids. So maybe he should just get divorced since he doesn't seem to think much of his wife and her slovenly ways and maybe someone else will really appreciate the vascularity and shredding that he is so proud of.[/quote]

Do you really think everyone who runs the Marine Corp marathon is either childless or has grown children? (Just as an example). [/quote]

Why would i think that based on what i said? If you have kids and a spouse time consuming hobbies can be a drag on the family. YMMV.[/quote]

Because all those people with kids in the house who are running/training have friction? Isn’t that your belief? I’m sorry things are unpleasant in your house. Truly. But there is tons of projection here.[/quote]

No, meat head. I never said all. Tons of projection indeed.[/quote]

I read your post on friction, and I call projection. Lots of families talk to each other and make things like daily gym and even marathon training work. By the way, I am woman, far from a “meat head.” [/quote]

Indeed. PP “friction poster” is an uninformed idiot. And likely has zero experience with any of this.

Meanwhile, we are taking like 1-2 hours during the week. Most people mindlessly watch that much TV a day. [/quote]

Why do you keep repeating the same stupid, wrong line about “TV?” Are you writing from 1993?[/quote]

Ok, how much time did you spend on DCUM today?[/quote]

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