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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The only people I have known who routinely hung out in an opposite-sex pair at work ended up banging, eventually. [/quote]

Same. Every single time.[/quote]

I agree. It starts innocently; then an emotional affair and then physical. I know someone who started an affair like this. It took 5 years but the friendship and bond grew over long lunches and after work drinks and eventually it happened.[/quote]

5 years and your friend never put the brakes on anything.  Some people just don’t have control of themselves or respect for their spouse.[/quote]

I’ve seen this happen too. It’s a slippery slope.[/quote]

It’s not a slippery slope if both parties are mature, committed, and loyal.  It’s really not that hard to avoid having an affair.  If you lack self-control, that’s a personal problem, not something everyone has.[/quote]

People with this attitude are sadly most likely to succumb to an affair. And it’s not intentional. They convince themselves they have self-control, therefore they don’t set appropriate boundaries. It takes only a hint of chemistry with another person for things to spiral out of control. [/quote]

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