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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I teach at an all girls school. I hate it too. I mostly hate it because I accidentally see butt cheeks and know some creep somewhere is getting off on it. [/quote] yep and I refuse to encourage my teens to wear clothing that may draw a pervert's attention. Yes, [b]it's the fault of the gross human preying on the child[/b], but if they are preying on kids, I don't think shaming them by saying they shouldn't be looking and my kid deserves to wear what they feel comfy in means much to the gross adults. [/quote] You should be careful about projecting adult maturity and intent to minor teenage girls. Sure they are enjoying and exploring their nascent sexual selves and the power to attract the male view, but they are still children even if sexually active ones. You’ll understand when So merely looking at a “curvy” 17 year old with her butt cheeks dropping below the line of her shorts and her breasts and nipples showing beneath a sheer white t-shirt with no bra is now “preying on a child”? You can’t have it both ways. I’m a middle aged man. Not a creep, not a perv. But I’ve seen plenty of these 16-20 year old girls out and about… they have zero intention of looking like “children”. And from the commentary that flies when the neighborhood dads get together, that’s not how they’re being viewed. I don’t much care either way—happy to catch a glimpse here and there, will never in a million years allow my daughter to dress like that when she’s that age—but those of you encouraging your teen daughters to “flaunt it while you got it” need to be realistic about what that means. [/quote] Be careful about projecting adult maturity and intent to teenage girls. Yes, they are dressing to enjoy and explore their nascent sexuality and the power to attract the male gaze, but they are still children, even if sexually active ones. When your daughter is older, you will understand how young and inexperienced they really are. Try not to join in on the lewd teenage commentary with the other Dads, it’s not progressive or sophisticated. [/quote]
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