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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]In my experience not everybody fits a stereotype. In my opinion, instead of applying them to women, men, or nonbinary, it's a better practice to create an environment where people feel comfortable sharing. [/quote]

But, until/unless someone can provide a science-based explanation of how wanting to be something is the same as being that thing, many of us are likely to find this entire excercise pointless and stupid.  Especially when we are more interested in getting actual work done than in making friends and saving the world.[/quote]

I’m not sure what to say.  I’m the parent of a teen who uses they pronouns.  Being misgendered contributes to their feeling suicidal.  We are doing everything we can to improve their mental health but in the meantime if you were their co-worker I’d be highly grateful if you shared your pronouns to make things easier for them.  It’s not your responsibility, and I don’t think anybody should force you to do so, but they would appreciate it, and it would go a long way in creating an environment where they felt accepted.  My child is highly anxious, shy, and has a name that is generally assumed to use she/her pronouns like Sarah.  [/quote]

I am not the PP but how does identifying myself as a woman help your daughter?  I actually need someone to explain this to me.  If I hear anyone referring to me by a pronoun it’s a sign of disrespect.  Pronouns are not used in the presence you the person. None of this makes sense to me.  If your child is non binary, then they should consider changing her name to something less typically feminine if it bothers them.  Putting a pronoun identifier on your email signature draws attention to your gender, and in many cases that is a problem for professional women. I won’t do it![/quote]

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