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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are there any countries out there that provide an equivalent level/amount of care for the elderly as one would expect at one of these expensive facilities but for a much more reasonable cost? Or is this a US thing?[/quote] My neighbor is of Indian descent and her father still lives in India. Apparently, the gov. provides 24 hr care for him (he's 90+). He can't come to the US anymore b/c they can no longer buy temporary health ins. for him. And he gets better care in India. [/quote] He was likely a govt worker to get that. But it doesn't matter really because in India you can spend the equivalent of ~$500 USD/month and have excellent round the clock nursing care--typically 2 nurses that work opposing shifts. That would cost $20K+/month in US, likely closer to $30K and no guarantee that the nurses don't just not show up---nursing care is hard to get consistency for only $25/hour. [/quote] I am Indian and you are painting a really rosy picture here. The poverty in India is shocking to me when I go back. The reason why things are so cheap is because the average Indian lives on a few dollars a day and the entire country has rampant slavery and extreme labor abuses. Most likely said nurse heads home to a slum at night. Most Indians are taken care of by extended family not just out of necessity, but out of tradition. [/quote] I'm well aware of the poverty in India. Married into an Indian family. I agree most are taken care of by the family, but the fact is you can still get good in home care for a decent price. Just like most UMC have a "driver" because it's only $250USD/month, and still relatively cheap for UMC+ Indians. When you hire the in home help, you are providing them a safe, reliable job and paying them more than no job. We hired actual nurses, not just a warm body to be there. These were nurses who had completed their degree and training. They were happy to work in this environment rather than a hospital and they became family (we treated them well). Brought them to USA when ILs came where they lived in our homes---we provided everything and paid them well, and when ILs passed, we worked to get them the documentation for them to remain in the USA and continue their lives here. Win-win for everyone. They were extremely well treated and are forever grateful for being able to come to the USA. Their being our family nurses put their lives on a whole new trajectory. [/quote]
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