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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Rigidity becomes necessary when a more causal approach leads to being chronically taken advantage of. [/quote]

OP, would Fair Play help?[/quote]

I’ve seen this mentioned a lot on this board. I think I’ll buy it.
About a year ago or so, I suggested we write down our individual loads. Like the things we own related to home kid family finances etc. we each drafted up our list and shared it.
Mine was probably 3x longer?
After he read mine, he went back to “edit” his list. He added random bs to make his list as long as mine. It was legit laughable. I’m talking about things like “manage Netflix and Hulu passwords”
“Call customer service representatives when internet is down”
“Filled out birth certificate paperwork”

Then he said the whole exercise was a farce.
A part of me hopes he doesn’t come back from this work trip. I think this often. I am not the best version of myself when he’s around. I have stayed quiet for so long to kept the peace and not risk an argument, at the expense of my inner turmoil. T[b]oday in his text rage he said that I act like taking care of “my daughter” is unbearable. [/b]Sometimes I wonder if I’m on a hidden camera show. Did I not see all these red flags before marriage? I’ve ignored my “knowing” for so long. I know I married the wrong person for me. I feel stuck.[/quote]

Is he wrong? I am reading the same too. Your kid is a burden on you both.

You should divorce then. Maybe divorce will make you richer, happier.  Maybe you are a hot prospect in the dating world?  [/quote]

So you don’t think OP’s husband is at least equally acting like she’s unbearable? Because I don’t see how that isn’t pure projection on his part. He’s so unable to parent he first ditched her with his mom and then his wife! It seems like he can’t bear an hour long stretch with his daughter. [/quote]

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