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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Depends on how much conservative (more center or middle would be ideal. )- and find out his views on children, abortion. Been married to a conservative last 16 years and have to say they make great husbands and fathers long term. [/quote] please. Conservative men don't believe in equal housework and childcare. I grew up in a conservative household. Liberal men are much more aware of women's rights than conservative men, who really don't care much about women's rights. Also, the highly educated tend to be liberal.[/quote] I disagree, I’m very liberal. Conservative men fix things, take care of the lawn/yard, paint rooms, fix light fixtures, do the taxes, grill, take orders when there is a party, plan tail gates, do the dishes, take their plates to the sink, set up tvs, move furniture, coach kids sports teams, help with nighttime routine (anything family), etc. Things are equal but fall on gender norm lines.[/quote] haha .. my liberal DH does all of it, and cooks, not just grill, bakes, fixes all kinds of things (neighbors all come to him for help fixing stuff), and he's an engineer. But, I do the taxes. Conservative men aren't doing much childcare or cooking and baking. Please. Tail gate? LOL That's super important housework. LOL[/quote] You missed the point! Yes conservative men to care for children but just not in the way you agree. And southerners tailgate Friday night/Saturday and Sunday. Grilling is cooking You aren’t talking about conservatives you are talking about jerks. There are plenty of liberal men who can’t cut a lawn or install a light fixture.[/quote] I didn't miss the point. Conservative men mostly have traditional gender roles, and doing housechorse and childcare is a traditionally female's role. If you mean they care for their children by working, guess what.. most women work and do housechores/childcare, too. I didn't realize Conservative only meant "southerners". LOL. I think you mean "traditional southern" people, not "conservatives". But, I'm sure you know that there are conservatives in other parts of the country,right? LOL[/quote] No taking care of children is not "traditional female roles" after men get home from work. Actually it's the opposite. Conservative men are actually very involved in care of children after they get home from work, but yes, they work so they are not involved from 9-5 but neither are working women. Conservative is not a Monolith nor is Liberal, you are joking if you think all liberal men are doing bedtime routine 50/50. I was giving and example. Conservative men are coaching teams, boy scouts, church groups, football games, baseball games, etc. 51% of conservatives support LGBT rights/marriage. 40% support immigration support 50% support gun control You really have been snowed by the Trump GOP and have forgotten there is a whole group of conservative that are not them.[/quote] lol. I need a source for your %s. The front runner for 2024 for the GOP is Trump. He has a much bigger lead than the next R. So yes, Trump GOP = GOP. I seriously doubt that most conservative men are doing childcare duty, cooking, cleaning after work. I'm sure there are a few, but I doubt the vast majority of conservative men are what you are describing. Conservative men aren't supportive of women's rights. That's laughable. If your kid came out as gay, your conservative DH more than likely wouldn't support gay marriage. If your DD was raped, your conservative DH supports a party that wants to force your DD to have her rapist's baby. If your DH doesn't believe in the above, then your DH should really leave the R party because the GOP has left your DH. I'm actually a former R, and left a long time ago. [/quote]
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