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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op - they basically said we know you’re going to be in x state and so we’ve arranged to go on vaca from there after Xmas so we can come join you for Xmas and the day after. I feel like I’m gonna have to talk to my parents and say we just need to suck it up that they join. It feels too mean to say you can’t come. My feeling is they shouldn’t expect to come - but clearly they do so given that fact I think we prob just need to accept it [/quote] So my thought that the inlaws have no other family to see might be correct. They show up one year and want to do it again. If it's a suck it up on them joining just tell them not to book the stop and fly directly to the vacation destination. They clearly don't understand and need to know they are not welcome for any holiday gatherings at OP parents or when OP parents are present. This goes beyond local or non local. [/quote]
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