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[quote=Anonymous]I’ve been married to DH with HFA for 15 years now. In the beginning, it was okay, after three kids, it is not. He’s a stressed out mess and can not cope with work and a family. He frequently shuts himself in his office or the bathroom. If he feels criticized at all, he immediately shuts down and sometimes won’t speak for hours. He gets angry if I try to speak with him about something that he forgot or messed up because he is so scattered. He just wants to disappear into his video games and work. It’s very lonely and depressing. My self esteem has slowly chipped away over the years and I can’t imagine what “normal” even looks like anymore. I just try not to talk to him to avoid him getting upset. He seems happier that way. [/quote]
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