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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At my DD’s school, the girls pull up a picture, discuss the pros and cons of the girl and then vote. My DD was dropped by the top houses and then the next week gets pulled aside to hear from “friends” that are members of these sororities what the specific pros and cons that were raised about her and also who said it. She also heard how so very sorry they were she was cut. Guess what? She is ready to transfer and is struggling with her mental health A LOT after this experience.[/quote]

WTH is wrong with those "friends"?!?!?

Seriously, anyone who think telling someone this are so screwed up and just not good people.

I hope your DD can find the help she needs, and yes transfer if needed. Nobody needs to be around people like that.[/quote]

Thank you. It is easy for us as confident, experienced 45-55 year old women to say to our daughters, “ignore them” and “you are amazing it doesn’t matter what these girls say.” However, it is really hard for an 18 or 19 year girl to hear these things from their peers. The comments weren’t even THAT bad, but they still did a number on my daughter. Even if the “friends” had not told her the specifics, they still know what is going on during voting and can imagine the comments about their personality, whether they are boring, pretty, etc. [/quote]

Seems like the issue was mostly her “friend”[/quote]

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