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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If they get uncomfortable or need to get out of an unsafe situation I’d like them to be able to reach me directly. Period.

The difference in having her phone and calling me from the bathroom to be picked up, or having to screw up her courage to get it from a basket at the door could make a difference. We like to think nothing bad is happening, and most likely it isn’t, but I want her to have access to ME if she needs me.

I totally get the intention of device free hangouts. But also think that’s something we need to suggest versus try to control. [/quote]

So your children never went to anyone's house or birthday party without you for all of elementary school?[/quote]

Well that’s a leap!

Why are you trying to make this an argument? [/quote]

Not pp, but it sounds like you need to get a handle on your anxiety and then try to cut the cord between you and your child. What kind of messaging are you sending the kid if danger lurks around every corner that they need to have a device within reach to call their mother when having it at a friend's house? That kind of anxiety is contagious and could either leave the kid incredibly nervous about life or rebelling against their tethered parent.[/quote]

Oh ffs. I’m teaching her how to notice when people are not cool. Sex predators happen. Middle schoolers can be awful to one another emotionally and socially. She could get her period and not be prepared. Something minor and less extreme - she simply isn’t into being there and wants to head home. If she’s not into being there I don’t want her to have to run the gauntlet of a controlling parent that might not perceive the situation clearly. She’s learning how to be independent by keeping it in her pocket except for emergencies instead of not being trusted to use it judiciously. I trust my kid. [/quote]

You claim your kid is learning to be independent, but you insist that your teenager be able to contact you instantly at all times?  Seriously?  Oh dear.  [/quote]

No. It’s so they can if they CHOOSE to.

Friend, you’re coming off bonkers. [/quote]

Why can't they walk up a flight of stairs, get their phone out of the basket, and contact you?

This seems to be more about parental anxiety than anything else.[/quote]
Yes. Of the host. [/quote]

There's no way someone as uptight and anxiety ridden as you even allows a kid (if you have one) out of your sight to go to a friend's house. This is a non issue for you, admit it, your kid isn't allowed a social life out of your view.[/quote]

Ok troll [/quote]

Says the troll with no kids inventing wild stories. [/quote]

Ask op to give you your phone. You forgot your meds at home again. [/quote]

This is your idea of an insult? Weak and sad. It's obvious you don't have kids and aren't an actual adult.[/quote]

You keep saying things like that. But it’s not true. Nice gaslighting though! [/quote]

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