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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My 23-year-old daughter has been dating this man for a month now and I just found out that he's 29. Now, I know that he's not legally doing anything wrong, but for him to date a woman that much younger than him is still pretty gross, and he should know better. By the time I was 29, 23 already seemed very juvenile to me, and I wouldn't have even dared to considered dating someone so young.

Now, I already know what you're going to say; that most women his age are already married, so he has no choice but to date substantially younger women. To that I just have to say that that's kind of his own fault. If getting married was so important to him, he should've started looking for potential spouses in his early 20s. That said, single women his age [i]do[/i] exist, and he can find them using online dating apps.[/quote]

First your daughter is an adult and it's none of your business. [b]Second why don't you tell your daughter to back off?[/b] I predict if they marry they'll cut off contact with uou right away.[/quote]

That would be completely unfair of me. She's too young to realize how inappropriate this relationship is. Her growna** boyfriend, on the other hand, knows full well that this is unacceptable.[/quote]

Explain to me, like I'm 5, why this is an issue. Your daughter presumably went to college, graduated, has a job, and an apartment where she pays her own bills.

Help me understand how this growna** WOMAN is a victim of a man who is in the same decade of life as she is. I'll wait.[/quote]

I'm not talking about her academic or financial achievements. I'm talking about the social and emotional immaturity of her and most women her age.[/quote]

So, you can’t explain how she would be a victim. She’d blow a 23 yo man, btw. And do the do.

[b]I’m guessing you are remembering *yourself* at 29 and you were a disgusting pig.[/b] That’s not age, that’s character.[/quote]

I knew better than to mess with the minds of young women.[/quote]

You still haven’t said how she is going to be a victim. What is he going to DO?[/quote]

The mere act of dating a girl lightyears younger than him is what he HAS done.[/quote]

Who’s the girl? Because no one over the age of 18 is a “girl.”[/quote]

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