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[quote=Anonymous]Oh gosh. I think I read it all but I am struck by what several other posters have mentioned- there are some really bad things mentioned both by his family and his own behavior but interspersed with minor/typical issues. It seems like you hate him so much now that you have really lost perspective and want him to not just respect your boundaries (some reasonable but some honestly not?) but also to hate his family and make dramatic pronouncements that he is choosing you. I wonder if he’s tuning you out because you have lost your sense of proportion? if you dislike and disrespect his family so much it makes sense he can’t talk to you about things. Can you focus a bit more on what you actually want from him? Like not saying he should divorce you. I would be very clear that’s not ok. But stop criticizing his family to him and stop asking him to “admit “ he’s enmeshed or whatever. If you are still upset he isn’t earning as much money as he was and it’s effecting your relationship that’s a conversation that can be had. Not about the year he wasn’t working but about what you need/want from him right now. If you can’t do that you’re out of luck- your marriage sounds full of contempt on both sides and that’s a recipe for disaster [/quote]

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