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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op you are never going to have a partner that you don’t have to compromise with, or that you will be 100% the same values and see eye to eye with on everyting-jobs, child rearing, in-laws, wedding, etc.  most married couples have the same disagreements you have cited wrt in-laws and careers.  We find a way through it -that’s what marriage is, it’s NOT about having someone who rescues and supports you 100% the time.

Do you honestly think you are right 100% of the time and he’s always wrong? That’s never the case. Nothing you’ve posted is divorce-worthy, all of it is couples stuff my friends and I complain about and we commiserate.  Stop sweating the small stuff and move on with your life focusing on the good things you have!

I’m sorry, but if you divorce over this petty stuff I suspect you will regret it in 5-10 years, maybe that needs to be the painful lesson you learn but it’s sad for your kid you can’t be more mature. [/quote]

I dont disagree with you!
I will continue with my individual therapist. I have asked him in the past to perhaps find marriage counselor of his choosing for us.
Since the last 2 he refused to keep going after they said things he did not want to hear.
I have a lot of great things in my life. I have so much much to be grateful for, and I am appreciative.
Just being honest, he is the consistent and constant wild card in my life. I am blessed and feel 100% confident and secure about my child, my parents, my friends, my job, my hobbies.
It's my husband that is the source of the most doubt in my life.[/quote]

No here. But I don't think you do get it.  And I don't think you understand that you're not always right and that compromise in marriage works both ways[/quote]

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