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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What’s this whole they are cooking “for her”? They are hosting, yes? Or is the expectation that when adult children visit able bodied parents they - the children - need to cook and clean etc? I am very confused. I am not saying the grown children shouldn’t cook or clean or offer to pick up takeout/go to dinner (bc really who wants to cook in someone else’s kitchen). [/quote] Grandparents are putting on three meals a day for 7 people for a week. That's assuredly more shopping and cooking than they're used to. So yes, they're "cooking for OP and her family." OP seems to take it for granted and thinks it's not enough because they should be babysitting her three kids too. [/quote]
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