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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have found out what he likes to do, when he has more freedom to choose. This is likely the life he might opt for in retirement.

It is a little rich that you like working from home and now resent that he wants that same lifestyle (which you have enjoyed in the past). If you are unhappy with the current arrangement, why do you assume he should be the one to get out? Perhaps it is your turn to commute, be tied to strict hours, etc?

Who is he hurting by sleeping later and wearing comfy clothes...if he is getting his work done? Sad that you loved a stereotype instead of a person.

Mind you, if he is drinking too much, that could be a health issue. I would recommend he discuss that with his doctor (honestly). But your other complaints just sound judgy, shallow and selfish.[/quote]

UMM you seem to have missed the post that OP has kids and has WFH to be the main caretaker. I wouldn't like my DH drinking and staying up until midnight, waking at 9am, jams at 4:30 for my kids to see on a daily basis. what kind of role model is that? [/quote]

Hasn't OP been working from home for nearly 20 years?  The statute of limitations on OP saying she is WFH for the kids has expired.[/quote]

There is a big possibility they have kids that are under 10, not driving, etc. "self-sufficient" probably means they can get their own water and granola bar. But not necessarily driving themselves to/from school and Dr appts.. [/quote]

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