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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] I had been close with the moms as well, but distanced myself once my DD was excluded. I wouldn’t bring it up to the moms. They know your DD is missing whether they admit it or not. Even if you ask one, you will get a generic message that the girls are growing apart, etc.[/quote] I agree that not admitting there is an issue is gaslighting and inappropriate. But unless there is a specific mean comment or behavior that OP wants these women to address (in which case she can bring that up), there's no other answer that they can give except that the girls are growing apart. [/quote] Which is exactly why OP shouldn’t bother to ask any of the other moms. The girls are usually savvy enough not to be outwardly mean in front of parents. If their moms ask them about it they will likely be even worse toward OP’s DD. There is nothing to be gained by talking to the other moms, regardless of how good OP’s friendships are with them. [/quote]
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