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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She is not a victim, but all the fault is with the married person looking to step out and betray their spouse.

The betrayed spouse needs to let go of the anger if they decide to stay with the cheating spouse. [b]I know several women that obsess over the OW and hate her, but have forgiven their husbands[/b].[/quote]

[b]That's how they manage that trick -- they hate the OW instead. It's the only way.[/b]

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Conversely, the OW often obsesses about the wife, as well. Competition over limited resources, the actual man is secondary.[/quote]

And wishes her harm, stalks her on the Internet …all while the wife has zero idea she even exists. She’s in a competition with a wife that doesn’t even know she’s in one and sadly they still can’t get them to leave the wife 98% of the time…when he only sees her at her absolute best in a fantasy world for an hour at a time.[/quote]

When my college boyfriend cheated on me, months later my boyfriend told me how the “other woman” would talk about  how much she hated me- and I had no idea she even existed at that point. It was weird the way she acted as though I’d done something to hurt her when she was the one going after someone else’s boyfriend.

I never could figure out her thought process on that. I wonder what a therapist would think her attitude indicated. 
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