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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One lady I met has a husband who is an attorney and she knows he is having affairs.  She’s been married all of four years. Her husband wants to take a job in Oklahoma where this AP is and she’s a stay at home mom with no support and a 1 and 3 year old and no skills. She already knows he won’t pay anything beyond the minimum required even though this guy makes good money. Her alimony will be very little. She’s trying to decide if she should divorce. It will plunge her and her kids into poverty. I don’t envy her in the least having to deal with all this, getting a job herself and the little ones. How can anyone be so cruel to their own children and the person they married is beyond me. [/quote]

Don't be so dramatic.  Yes, she might have to cancel her membership to the country club, but she's not going to be plunged into poverty.   [/quote]

You are mistaken. She’s from a small town and her family are immigrants and they have no money so she has no inherited money. She married well. It will all be cut off from her minus alimony and child support and she has no skills to make the money to take care of the kids. He doesn’t want them at all and will give her full custody with visitation but the alimony and the child support will not cover her and she can’t work easily with two young kids and no skills. I’m sure she can find an apartment to live in with that money but that’s about it. Alimony does not go far. [/quote]

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