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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are both in your 40’s?!? No one has time to wait on the sexual chemistry. I wouldn’t wait for you and I am a female. What exactly is the boyfriend/girlfriend title doing for you that makes it ok to have sex?[/quote]

Not OP, but:[b] Some people actually want sex with a person they love, or at least care enough about to be vulnerable not just physically but also emotionally. Some people want sex to be part of a relationship that has much more than sex in it. [/b]DCUM firmly believes in "if you don't have sex by the third date/fifth date/three months/whatever time frame I set," you are frigid or weird. Others focus on how sex is a neeeeeeeed that must be met even if it requires a paid stranger....

OP, I don't know if you already had sex with him or not by this point, but: There is nothing wrong, weird or frigid about wanting sex on your terms and having terms that include sex in the context of a larger relationship. Otherwise it's just a screw, and the partner could be a random you picked up in a bar. Having sex with someone your'e dating, before you're ready and fully willing, is wrong for me and sounds like it's wrong for you. [/quote]
I mean this is nice and all but clearly you missed that OP is doing everything but PIV. So she’s not needing love, commitment, or a strong emotional connection.[/quote]

Np. This isn't the gotcha you think it is. Pps entire point was OP gets to determine what criteria she needs to do xyz. For zoP she wants an officially exclusive relationship for POV. That's her standards and that's okay.

I really don't know why that's so difficult for you and others to comprehend.

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